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How to Deepen Your Sexual Connection With Your Partner

If the sex feels boring, it may be because you’re focusing on pleasure first and connection second. You may be doing a lot of things and movements, but not really being with each other. When you express your emotions, risk being vulnerable and are open, you can connect on a deeper, more intimate level. Sometimes being emotionally naked is the sexiest, most thrilling way to satisfy your desires. Let’s look at how you can deepen your sexual connection with your partner.

Set the Stage

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One way you can connect more during sex is by setting the stage for intimacy. Some great ideas for setting the mood include giving one another massages, putting on some sensual music, lighting candles and making sure to clear your schedules for sex and intimacy. You can also set the mood by kissing often before sex. Sexual intimacy happens when you feel safe, loved and aroused by your partner. SpicyBox sends you intimate items every month. Order your first box today!  

Be Present

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Many people feel emotionally disconnected during sex because their minds are somewhere else. You need to be fully present in order to be fully open. Avoid thinking about your to-do list, house chores, work or your kids’ schedule. Get out of your head and back into your body. Bring all your attention to your body and breath and then bring all of your attention to your loved one. Letting go during sex and meditating is the exact same thing.

Prioritize Building a Friendship

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Many people make the mistake of focusing too much on technique — the details of sex itself. However, one of the most underrated ways to increase trust and openess during sex is to really work on developing a solid, always-evolving friendship with your partner. When your relationship is a safe space to share, be and express without being judged, your ability to offer more and surrender without reservations in the bedroom greatly increases.

Let go and Surrender 

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Let go of your expectations of how things should go and look and just enjoy the moment with your partner. Many couples try to plan how their lovemaking should go before it’s even happened. This is partly because you can easily get stuck in a sex routine. Doing this will prevent you from experiencing fully surrendered sex — the sex where you both fully surrender into trust and love and let all of your walls down. Switch up your predictable sex routine with SpicyBox’s Passion Tips!

Take Turns Giving And Receiving

How to Deepen Your Sexual Connection With Your Partner
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Sometimes people get into a habit of primarily giving or receiving. When you set up a time where you can be alone with your partner without interruption, try to maintain focus on one another during your sexually intimate moments. Taking turns is not about “you do me and then I’ll do you,” it is about dropping into a shared erotic experience with focused attention.

There are many ways to intensify your intimate connection with your significant other during sex. You can also communicate openly about your physical and emotional needs. Practice being more verbal about how you feel toward your partner, or express your feelings in outward non-verbal ways. You can try maintaining eye-contact during sex, doing small touches like stroking their face and kissing their neck. You can even say their name during sex or tell them you love them. Working on deepening your bond with your partner through intimacy will lead to a more satisfying sex life in your relationship. If you want to receive monthly ideas and tips to further strengthen your connection, make sure to order your SpicyBox

7 Ways To Keep Your Relationship Exciting

If your relationship feels dull and unexciting, perhaps this is because there’s a lack of work from one or both partners. If it feels boring, you can work on the relationship to make it spicy. Read along and prepare to reignite that passion!

1. Try Something New Together

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If you feel stuck in a routine, that can be a sign that you need to make a change. Creating new experiences with your long-term partner is important to spark some of the feelings of desire and excitement from the early stages of your relationship. Whether you choose salsa dancing, cooking classes or fishing, be beginners together!

2. Keep Having Sex

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Sure, life gets in the way and priorities change. But should sex really be less important? Sexual playfulness keeps the spark alive. Have sex often but avoid it becoming something that happens at the same time, in the same place or in the same way each time.

3. Schedule Regular Date Nights

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Having a regular date night is one of the simplest ways to keep your relationship strong, but keeping those dates interesting is tough. Each SpicyBox includes unique items to be used for two creative date nights, as well as simple instructions on what to do!  While there are certainly no hard rules when it comes to how often a couple needs to go on dates, doing so with some regularity is definitely a great way to keep the bond going strong.  

4. Keep the Sexual Energy Alive

You can maintain sexual tension by expressing desire even if there isn’t an opportunity to act on it. Life gets busy, we get it! However, never stop flirting. Let that kiss goodbye before work last a bit longer than usual. Send sexy text messages during your lunch break. Put sex in eachother’s minds and let it linger throughout the day!

5. Touch Each Other Often

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Touch is something that shows that you care, whether it’s a kiss, cuddling in bed, a ruffle of the hair, a gentle rub on the back or holding hands when out walking. Intimacy is another form of communication, and touching every day helps to sustain feelings of deep attachment.  

6. Keep the Element of Surprise Alive

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Surprise creates a sense of unpredictability that can make your partner more curious about you. Curiosity helps keep the relationship fresh and alive. You can surprise your loved one by jumping in the shower with them on a Monday morning, or you can get them tickets to a concert they’ve been wanting to go to, or even just giving a sexy wink from across the room instead of a smile. Adding surprises to the relationship can be fun! 

7. Compliment Each Other

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If there’s something you love about your partner, comment on it! For example, ‘I love how kind you are to everyone around you,’ ‘The way you get dimples when you smile gets me every time,’ ‘Wow, you weren’t lying when you said you were hitting the gym!’ You know what to say. 


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