Whether you’ve been together for months or years, the holiday season can bring a lot of stress to a relationship. But if you do any of these small things to keep your relationship stress-free during the holidays, then your relationship can come out of the season a lot stronger.
Make Time For Quality Time Together
While you’re out gift and food shopping and trying to make sure you have everyone and everything on your list, don’t neglect your relationship. We understand it’s a busy time of the year and it can be difficult connecting with your partner in the midst of it all. However, try to plan at least one just-the-two-of-you date. SpicyBox’s unique date ideas are perfect for the couple that wants to spend quality time together but doesn’t have the time to plan something special. Order your first box today and receive everything you need for an intimate night. Couples who devote time to one another at least once a week on dates are more likely to have high-quality relationships with higher levels of communication, sexual satisfaction and commitment.
Lean on Each Other For Help
As couples are affected by external relationships including friends and family, it’s important to tackle the holiday season as a team. This means communicating when it comes to holiday spending, decorations and Christmas parties. It also means being supportive, kind, and respectful to each other even when you’re both stressed out and overwhelmed. You might be surprised at how much you can get done together. You can reduce stress, knock out your list and maybe even steal a few kisses in between.
Give Thoughtful Gestures
The holidays are a time for giving. No need to wait until Christmas morning to show your partner you care. You can spread out thoughtful gestures the entire holiday season. Thoughtful gestures can be bringing them a cup of tea in bed, cooking a meal for them, getting their car washed or putting a sweet note in their wallet. If you want to surprise your partner with a gift, don’t just buy a requested gift, give an unexpected gift—one that took a bit of thoughtfulness and creativity. Most people prefer gifts that are very thoughtful and unexpected. Hint! Hint! Surprising your partner with a SpicyBox date will be the perfect gesture!
Create Small Rituals Of Connection
The holidays are all about traditions. What better way to be closer with your partner than starting your own traditions. Think about one ritual you could repeat year after year that would add more joy to your relationship. It might be having hot chocolate together on a holiday after the kids go to bed, watching a favorite movie together every holiday or running a 5K together on New Year’s Day. Try even creating small rituals of connection, such as checking in with each other every evening after work or kissing hello and goodbye. Trying to maintain some level of connection in your daily routine is important in general. But these small rituals can help to keep your relationship intact during the stressful holiday time.
Make Time For Sex
When you have a lot going on, it’s easy to let sex life get pushed to the side. However, it’s important to keep prioritizing intimacy if you want to make your relationship more resilient during the holiday season. Just like getting enough sleep, exercising, laughing together and making time for yourself can all be really helpful in reducing the overall stress in your relationship, making time for sex is just as important. SpicyBox’s Passion Tips will help reignite the passion during stressful times. Get your first box today!